Most times, it is only when we are a step away to achieve that massive gamechanger that we begin to envisage doubts. This is a very common occurrence and has stopped lots of people from attaining greater heights.
You have spent time, sweat, sacrificed for this very goal only to give up now? It is mid year and you are questioning what you have achieved so far. People around you can show a thing or two they have aced this year but not you.
The social media isn’t helping too. People post their success stories left right and center, even it’s mere studio pictures. Do not be deceived. My Dear, mere being alive and reading this post is something. Look around you, there are many things you can celebrate and post too, if you wish.
Stay focused. You are unique and the best version of yourself. Prioritise your needs. You will achieve your target. Take those steady and consistent actions. Do not give up.
Give no room negativity such as:
Is this worth doing anymore?
Can I forge ahead?
What will happen in the long run if this and that and the other goes wrong?
At times, it appears as if we have forgotten how far we have come. How much we have laboured.
How we have longed for such a time. How much we have sacrificed or let go of.
Can I ask you, why doubt God now?
Since when do you really need to have it all figured out?
I KNOW you do not always have it all figured out.
Simply take that bold step and leave the rest to God.
Hi Friends, I’m concerned about the rate of unemployment and how it affects lots of people. Needless to say, this COVID-19 era is not helping issues at all. Hopefully, with rollouts of vaccines things will get back to near normal, to say the least.
Unfortunately, there are lots of graduates with no jobs especially in African countries and precisely in Nigeria. However, in this kind of cases I would say try LinkedIn. In fact, I’m encouraging everyone to have a LinkedIn account. If you are job hunting you should be spending more time on LinkedIn not Facebook or Twitter.
I will like to urge any unemployed graduate to make good use of Linkedin. There are a lot of jobs out there. Ask questions, search for jobs, tag recruiters, follow companies and influential people. Go for it. Interested people will share your posts too.
If you have been doing the same thing for a long time and it isn’t working seek advice. For instance, if you have been using same CV for different job applications, get your CV reviewed by someone else or a professional. You can revamp your CV to a resume, that could be the trick. Just do something different this time for a possibly different outcome.
There is no better way to say that things are hard already. It is mind blowing to see how people are struggling despite having to make ends. Most people are basically living from hand to mouth while many others cannot avoid good food on regular basics for their family. People with academic qualifications are equally affected. Ideally, one would think that higher education implies automatic job post studies but it isn’t the case. In certain health related jobs, there are always jobs but this is not so for majority of disciplines.
I think it’s about time everyone learnt a skill or trade alongside their regular job. This can help close some gaps. Most times the government are been blamed. Nonetheless, we can take the bull by the horn for a better and ambitious nation.
It can be saddening to see families suffer including poor kids. For instance, in cases where in a family the man hawks or do menial jobs to fend for his wife and children. It might be as a result of an expected event that changed their that situation, yet, that is their reality.
Life shouldn’t be this hard for most of us. Keep taking actions till you find a job and lead a live of purpose. l know you might have come across “PUSH”. PUSH stands for
P – Pray
U – Until
S – Something
H – Happens
In this context, it will be nice you continue to PUSH but I will be adding Persist to the P. So, persist (i.e. with whatever job searching steps you are taking) till something happens. I clearly used adding to the P and have not replaced it for good reasons.
In addition, do not limit yourself to a particular city or even country. In this digital era, people shouldn’t be suffering like that. Poverty should be eradicated. I want everyone (male snd female alike) to have an independent mindset. Besides, that will make one more relevant to their partner, if applicable. I suppose Chimamanda Adichie, the lead for Feminist will like those lines😊
Please friends let’s push down unemployment rate by searching for job drastically, working, saving, and investing. These will definitely pave way for a better future for all.
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I know right now you will be wondering what this is all about. My late grandma of blessed memories would often say “Echee echeteghi” is what poses a problem to people most times. She says it in a manner that one who doesn’t know it would think its all one word.
Echee echeteghi is simply a situation of hopelessness. It is when an individual cannot see any way forward in their situation. It’s either they have tried a thing or two and even more and has nothing meaningful to show for it.
Echee echeteghi can lead to depression and other mental health issues, if not addressed properly. It can trigger other numerous stress related health conditions too.
In any given circumstances, please do not think all hope is lost. Keep reaching out to people, speak up, taking actions till you get desired result. Chances are you are almost close before you quit.
You can give yourself a break but must keep believing that things turn out good. It is important that one have that positive and focused mindset all the time.
May “Echee echeteghi” be distant from us all.
Lots of love
@Viviensvoice
P.S. May the beautiful soul of my beloved grandma and that of all the faithfuls departed through the mercy of God rest in peace 🙏🏼
At this time of remembering of Christ’s passion and resurrection, may we remind ourselves that we are human created in God’s image. We ought to be christlike in our thoughts and actions be it in our homes or workplaces/schools.
As Christ carried His cross even till death may we carry ours with peace and in resignation to God’s will. May the risen Lord visit you and your family.
Wishing you all a happy easter celebration. May God bestow on you the gift of His peace. May your hearts be filled with blessings and deepest calm that never cease.
On a different note, was there anything you gave up during the lent? I do not mean chocolates this time. For example, giving up habitual sins and telling lies among others.
Do guide your spiritual life. Be humble before God.
Recently, I spoke with a friend and was worried when she raised concerns regarding her mental health. Our mental health should be made a priority no matter the situation at hand.
It is important that we understand that issues pertaining to one’s mental health shouldn’t be taken slightly. Of utmost important is when people begin to feel suicidal and can’t see the essence of their life snd began to regret the things that really matters to them.
At times, self blame is all they can see. This is the point when They are most venerable and need help. Some family members or close friends can help no matter how they resent you initially or even blame you to be part of the problem. Do seek help.
Let’s take the ongoing royal news of Meghan and Harry’s interview with Oprah’s for example. There were mention of concerning topics ranging from racism to mental health issues; where a person got to the point of not wanting to be alive any more. I am shocked to see how many comments that still criticises that very aspect. Like, it can’t be made up people. My writing isn’t to discuss the royals saga with you but to highlight certain issues.
No one should be ignored or pushed aside when their mental health is at stake regardless of their social status.
You might be surprised to know that life isn’t really what it seems for most people. In my opinion, when you feel challenged, down or really low; do remember you can be brave and wither the storm. Chances are it is only a phase.
Think, take a deep breathe and think deeply, there should be a way out.
There should be things that means a lot to you or people worth living for.
Speak to people.
There should be one or two persons who you can trust to understand, reason and do not judge you.
Please, my dear readers be nice to people.
Be kind to people especially with your words.
Many people are suffering on daily basis.
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Hello Friends, this post is different from my usual kind of post. I have come up with an intriguing idea. Recently, I have a good friend who have helped me proofread some of my works.
I have decided to do a similar thing for other people. Thank you so much Elizabeth, I am very grateful. I want to pay it forward. It reminded me that we can help people in different ways even while miles apart.
So, if you have any essay, coursework or article you need help proofreading I can help, in my little way.
I believe that we can be of help to one another. Still in the journey to a better person and to serve you better. Of utmost importance to me is to influence lives positively.
Do share this post with your friends, in your various networks, you never can tell. Lets help each other. Someone else might feel inspired and come up with another idea to assist others. Please, share🙏🏼
Disclaimer: I hold no degree in writing related courses but I simply love writing, reading and maybe, proofreading😊
Hi Friends, hope you are all good? I have come across some amazing YouTubers with great contents especially for those who want to study or work abroad.
I will be posting their links here. Do check them out and share with your friends. Hopefully, it will change someone’s life.
Do check out “Chilo talks” on YouTube. This is what her vlog is all about. Chioma has done so many collaborations with other country residents as well. Countries like Japan, Ireland, Australia and many others were discussed. She is based in Japan and have written a lot about Japan.
If your dream Country is Japan, you can chat her up to fill you in. Personally, I didn’t think that much of Japan in comparison to UK and US till I began watching her vlogs.
Enjoy and have a fruitful weekend ahead.
Let’s grow together
@viviensvoice
Disclaimer: This is not a sponsored post. Chioma is aware of this post.
It is still January and a lot of things we do can pave way for a better and greater remainder of the year.
If you are the praying type, have you embarked on any form of special prayer to commit the entire year into Gods hands? If the answer is no, its never too late. Maybe, this is the reminder you need.
Just like we set goals for personal or career development, our spiritual lives should not be left behind. This is essential as it has a unique way of helping us stay focused and enables us pick up what is left when life challenges happen.
I believe that certain personal achievements do not happen by chance as we earnestly work hard to accomplish them. Similarly, same zeal should be applied to our spiritual live and growth. Also, consistency in prayer habit is required too. Trust me, our spiritual lives can be likened to the foundation of a house. I know you would not want a shaky or unbalanced foundation.
Sometimes, what we need is to have a prayer partner or prayer group that aids in boosting our prayer life. It is more like someone giving you a helping hand and you can actually be accountable for your progress. For me, it’s a prayer group. I have learnt a lot by mere joining of a special prayer group filled with people who are hungry for God. I appreciate their great work because on my own I wouldn’t have come this close to where I am today. I am still on the journey😊
If you are interested in knowing more about the prayer group, what they do or how to join, do feel free to contact me. More so, I am open to discuss further and provide support, if need be.
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Happy New Year 🥳 to you and yours. I’m so glad we made it. The past year has been a handful.
Normally, I love to reflect about the past year and would encourage you to do so. Nonetheless, it is understandable that many unexpected events happened last year especially, with the ongoing Covid-19 pandemic and it’s disruptions.
However, I would still encourage you to map out a plan for this year regardless. Make a list of the things you want to achieve, work towards them effortlessly, pray about themselves and leave the rest to God. Do not forget that God niether sleeps or slumbers.
My previous posts about new-year and new year resolutions can be found here. Check this too. You can have a sneak peek😊
I would like to remind you that everyone carries glory. Well, my bible says so. On that note:
May your glory manifest to its fullest in this year 2021🙏🏼
May there be no unfinished businesses to carry over to the next year.
